Prosperity– Isn’t it a term associated with success?? Yes. It is but the backbone of it still remains happiness. And felicity in relationships can make any and every individual jolly. So, writing from the view point of an individual, what is it that has to be absolutely done away with, when it comes to carry on a relationship.

Well, the foremost is stop being a Barbie. Because happiness in real life isn’t just about cajoling and making lovely remarks, it’s about understanding at a practical level. So, the front most of all that you have to do is stop being a chaser. Just because your guy does not always have the right words, the correct ways to express his feelings does not mean that he does not love you. Genetically seen and researched, guys actually talk less than their female counterparts. So, cherish what he does for you instead of cribbing and chasing because that would only lead to a distraught you, a running him, and a fall of the whole beauty that you both once cherished. The very reason that women go after chasing their men is that that become anxious and start reasoning to themselves whether their men are genuine or not. But, what indeed can be a relationship-saver is slowing down a bit. On the contrary, get that anxiety off your head. Put your thinking caps on and reason it with your partner to make it happen. Tell them in a composed way as to what you feel and why you would indeed like him to be more inclusive towards your loneliness and feelings.

Just pull yourself back and try putting yourself in his shoes. He might be all loving and be yes for an honest, seasonable communication. Men who are true to their partners would love to be in a healthy communication with them. Just do not be critical of any facts and stretch over the top. Never tell them that you are actually becoming insecure and queasy. Reason it out with confidence, self respect and dignity. Men would never let go of such companions who are strong even in turbulent times.

You have to be emotionally stable if you want your relationship to work for years and ever. Women who are strong and have a spark in them to live life with all its challenges are a yes yes for men. So, do not give undue warning and sentimental threats to your partners. Just keep you cool and composure and work on the relationship, if at any moment, you feel it going off the track.

Its not always about us women, but also men, that they would want fidelity from their partners. So, give them all the space and also be loyal. Like you long for praises, emotional connect, even they aspire for recognition. So, give them their due respect and you will receive yours. Just by following these small steps, your own relationship can culminate into a beautiful one.

Its very similar to marketing and advertising that I do. Because of the very fact that I praise and value coupons like Glowhost Coupon, GoDaddy Transfer Coupon, PacificHost Coupon, I’m able to carry on my job of selling them. I can not enjoy my job and offer discounts if on fore front, I do not value the quality of these coupons. Like ways, until and unless we feel good about the man we are with, we can not make merry about our relationship.

Do not let go off a guy just by keeping the frustration inside. Instead talk it over and the relation would blossom


Are We Subservient !!

Psychology has dwelt in various controversies since its inception. In today’s modern era, the mere usage of a term is viewed under a microscope with much higher resolution. More than the contemporary academic worlds in which we live in, terms are now referred to the analytical philosophy. And, so on the very same track is the coinage of the term “subservience”.

Humans who majorly contribute in the pie compartments are now associated with the term subservient. Is this true owing to the shackles of liberalization and globalization that have together provided the platform for each human body to become masters of his own accomplishments???

The general belief that an onlooker would establish of a person being submissive would be his slavish attitude which gives him more “settlement” than “accomplishment”. Keeping silence although the discussions itself could be termed slavish. Layman public would not be in admiration of the fact that we are known to be inclined to submit to orders of higher authority replacing their enthusiasm to oppose for wrongdoings or taking the right credit and instead shaking hands with the domineering lot preponderantly.

Is this in our blood??? Genes coming from our ancestors? Or is it mere reflection of us as “poor thinkers of high intelligence”.

Speaking broadly, it conforms to the question that are we just being the silent creepers with no minds and being mere flunkeys or a race of mere stagnant lot who have found utmost atonement in being employed rather than being the employers, being the slaves rather being served and in all being   the yes-boss stooges.

As a cognitive noetic, we can ascertain the very statement of Humans being termed subservient from two sides.

Focusing upon one side, literally in fields of education, democracy, bureaucracy etc, we have made our stand to fend against the testing times.

But, till today, we people with high intelligence, turns out, are poor thinkers in matters of snapping the position that we merit. Somewhere or the other, we get caught in the ‘intelligence trap”. This is rightly connected to not being belligerent. If we start taking up obligatory responsibilities, then surely our view on a subject and its very premise and perception would be counted in the eyes of the higher authority.

Going by our perceptual experience, we should start confronting the very situations in our road to pinnacle for only then can we become symbolic masters of our reign. Our so-called subservient demeanor has to give way to presciently thinking.

There are several instances which prove, us not being the submissive lot. Quoting from several socio-politico-economic examples, we know that citizens have actually started voicing their opinions in a war-ridden society where no more injustice of any kind is tolerated.

Several governments’ dominant attitude is shown by the justice parameters that evince maladroitness and ineptness giving solace in disguise to only the depraved individuals and terrorists. The vitiated people too are beaming to be under the compartmentalization in several judiciary systems because of their cack-handedness. This is being questioned by millions of citizens which again ultimately showcases the system’s impuissance as if henpecked by some other authority but peoples’ attitude itself marks that they all yes to discretion.

Winning is not everything but the only thing”. And, to achieve it, the slavish attitude is to be done away with